Friday, March 21, 2014

Lucy and Arfar

Today Sarah, Ava, Noah, and I took Lucy to meet her Great Grandfather, affectionately known as Grandfather or "Arfar" for those who can't yet say grandfather.

He has the magic touch as always and had her smiling, cooing, and blowing bubbles within moments of our arrival.  I think he was pretty smitten with her, too.

I wish I'd remembered to take my nice camera, but all I had is my phone.  Still, I love these visual reminders of what a loving, wonderful Grandfather I have!  97 and still going strong, folks!

You can just see Lucy's big grin!
Lucy was rather mesmerized by Grandfather! 
Even at 97 he's still an excellent baby handler! 
LOVE!

And what were Ava and Noah doing during this visit?  Playing War, Matchup, and learning how to spin the top...as well as playing spies on us through the window from the kitchen to living room. :)

Learning the fine art of "War" the card game.

Memory is always a favorite.  Raise your hand if you played with this exact set as a child:  (hand raised).  Bonus if you helped CREATE it! :)  I can still smell (in memory only) the rootbeer and the grape soda and snowcone. Mmmm! And the pink...whatever that was...milkshake? 



Grandfather teaching them how the old wooden top works.  Just as Sarah and I were commenting that the original leather string still works, it broke in half.  I took the pieces, now to remember to pick up a new bit of leather at the craft store.  This is an oldie that needs to live on!  


There's always fun memorized to be found at Grandfather's house.  These used to come in tea boxes... Anyone know if they still do?  We also saw "Mr. Grasshopper" and a host of family photos taken over the years.  


We love (great) Grandfather! 

"Hey mom, this guy's pretty great, huh?"

Thursday, March 20, 2014

Papa update

Hey family and friends,

I'm sure my mom will post a more thorough blog on Papa's status, but I wanted to get some information out there so you can be praying. More details/backstory here:  http://fromseatodesert.blogspot.com/

A little backstory: Papa has a PICC line that runs medicine directly into his heart. He has a port in his right arm that then feeds a tube directly to his heart.  One of the common dangers with a PICC line is infection.  The PICC line delivers Milrinone to his heart, which is helping his heart to pump harder, extending the time he has until he gets a donor heart.  The Milrinone is a temporary fix, which will quit working at some point.  At that point, if a donor heart isn't available (and Papa isn't healthy enough to receive it), he'll have to have open heart surgery for them to remove his artificial heart valve and put in an LVAD wire to keep him alive until he gets a heart. 

While we were visiting him last week, he wasn't feeling well. He tried his best to participate and enjoy Lucy.  He would disappear for hours at a time to sleep -- much more than usual.  He developed body aches and a low grade fever on Thursday night.  After calling in to their nurse coordinator at the Mayo, they were told to head in to the doctor.  They went to the ER and, of course, by the time they got there his fever was gone.  The doctors ran a chest x-ray, blood tests, and found that his PICC line (the IV that runs from his arm into his heart and delivers his medicine Milrinone) had moved from his heart up into his neck.  They have no idea how that happened, but they backed out 20cm of line out of him to get it out of his neck. It's now sitting in his chest, though not in his heart.

Fast forward to Monday night and they returned to the ER with fatigue, low blood pressure, and continued aches.  They ran blood tests again and yesterday the bloodwork came back positive for staph and another bacteria.

Papa returned to the hospital and was admitted and started on broad spectrum antibiotics (Vancomycin).  They're now running more tests, trying to narrow down the strain of staph and any other bacteria that's in his blood so that they can tailor his antibiotics to treat it most effectively.  The big question at this point is whether the bacteria has lodged in/on his heart.  Since he has an artificial (graphite) aortic valve, they are running a scope down his throat today to see if there's any bacteria on it.

If his heart is clear of bacteria (and we should know this tomorrow -- Friday), then he'll be discharged once his PICC line is replaced with a sterile line and he'll be on antibiotics via IV twice a day for two weeks, then he can be put back on the active list for a heart transplant.

If they find any bacteria on the valve or anywhere on the heart, it's much more serious.  They will have to treat him with strong antibiotics for six weeks (or more) before he can return to the active list for the heart transplant.

Either way it's somewhat serious, but it's certainly more serious if he has an infection in/on his heart as it's more time off the heart transplant list.

I'm summarizing many, many details that I've been told over the last months/weeks/days, so I'm hoping I didn't miss anything important. My mom will have updates available soon on her blog: http://fromseatodesert.blogspot.com/

Through it all my dad has shone the light of Christ to us and to the doctors, nurses, and staff at the Mayo, and to friends along the way.  His take on it is that it's a win-win: If he gets a heart, he gets more time here with his family: wife, kids, grandkids!  If he doesn't get a heart, he goes to be with Jesus.  He's remained upbeat throughout this whole process. It's amazing.

So, how can you pray:

1. Pray that the infection isn't in his heart!

2. Pray against further complications/infections

3. Pray for peace for Papa and for my mom.  This takes an especially heavy toll on my mom, watching him go through all of this, ever being on alert, not being able to do anything for him

4. Pray for a heart! -- Pray for the family of the donor. We pray that he will be a Christian and thus the separation from his family will be temporary.  We pray if the family is not Christians, that the Gospel will be shared with them through their loss.

5. Pray for the recovery post-transplant -- that it will be successful, complication-free, and that Papa will have patience and joy in the long, slow process of recovery.

Thank you all!

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Arizona 2014

Lucy and I flew down to Arizona to spend a week with Papa and Nana.  It was Lucy's first flight and she did great!  I was pretty nervous, but once we made it through security (and of COURSE I was selected for a random drug search), it was smooth sailing.  Lucy slept through the flight until the final descent; she cried through most of it, but who could blame her? It was well past her bedtime by then and I'm sure her ears were hurting.  Poor girl!  But then we were THERE! In warm Arizona!


Happy to be in Arizona!
Nanaaaaa! I missed you!!! 

All better! Nana has the magic touch! 

How many grandparents does it take to calm a fussy baby? 

Uncle Seth got to meet Lucy. He pronounced she's a cute baby -- high praise from Seth! 

He makes her seem tiny!

We got to go down to Casa Grande and visit Seth and see his new place.  He's fixing it up one aspect at a time and doing a great job!  






It was kind of surreal seeing all his Border Patrol uniforms in the closet. Yep, guess that really IS what he does! 


This little girl captured this big guy's heart!

Who me? I never fuss. I'm a perfect angel! 
 Lucy loved her Papa! She thought he was pretty hilarious! He could get her smiling and cooing so much! She wore him out, but he loved it!





Reunited and it feels SO GOOD!  Isaac flew down for the weekend -- this was our first time being separated over night as a married couple... that was rough! It was not an experience either of us cared to repeat any time soon.  It was so wonderful to wake up next to him and spend full days relaxing with him, showing him the sights!
Lucy showing daddy how she'd spent her week -- naked and watching the ceiling fan! 

Going on a hot date! Thanks for babysitting, Nana!!! 

My little ladybug. 


This just MELTS. MY. HEART! I love them! 

Mom and Papa (and Guido)

Vacation mode x 2!

 We went for a hike up to the waterfall!  This was Lucy's first hike ever and my first post-baby hike -- it felt great and was beautiful!

Lucy's riding in style - wearing mama's bonnet. 

We saw lots of cacti in bloom -- so pretty -- and crazy to see something so pretty on a prickly cactus! 

The hiking crew


Exploring the upper basin of the waterfall

This is how I feel about having my picture taken, mom!


Hiking is exhausting for little people!

Pretending we're NOT freezing to death in the friends' pool. 

Scooting on home! 



Wednesday, March 5, 2014

My Sweet Girl!

Just a few pictures of my favorite little bird!  She's filling out and gaining personality and strength.

We love her!

She reminds me so much of my baby pictures -- big dimple, tongue out, so happy!



Infinitely kissable toesies! 


Look at those long, elegant fingers! She takes after her Papa and her great grandpa John. 


She's a morning person, folks! 



Look how strong I am!